We often assume that other people perceive the world in much the same way we do. If we are someone who can empathize with other living beings, we instinctively assume that other people can do the same. We usually don’t even question it, because to us it’s simply “normal.”
When we find ourselves in a situation where someone close to us hurts us with their behavior, we usually have a very healthy impulse at first: We want to explain what hurt us.
Analyzing the synastry between two people is not only a pleasure for many astrologers. Even if we otherwise have little to do with astrology, it quickly arouses our curiosity. After all, who doesn't ask themselves at some point, whether it's a new acquaintance or a long-term relationship, whether it “really fits”?